Every video featured here has been carefully selected because it advances understanding, encourages healthy relationships, or contributes to the prevention of abuse through education.

Our goal is to provide trusted educational content from respected researchers, educators, and professionals whose work helps us better understand trauma, abuse, human behavior, healing, and the justice system.

Whether you are a survivor, family member, advocate, educator, attorney, judge, law enforcement officer, healthcare professional, or simply someone seeking knowledge, we hope these videos provide insight, perspective, and practical understanding.

Featured Video

A Reframing of Masculinity, Rooted in Empathy

Presented by Dr. Gary Barker

TED Talk | February 2024

Why We Selected This Video

At Changing, Not Accepting, we believe that preventing abuse is just as important as understanding it.

In this inspiring TED Talk, Dr. Gary Barker challenges traditional ideas of masculinity and encourages a culture built on empathy, compassion, and connection. His message reminds us that healthier relationships begin long before violence occurs.

This presentation is valuable for parents, educators, judges, attorneys, mental health professionals, law enforcement officers, advocates, and anyone interested in creating safer families and stronger communities.

Watch the TED Talk:


More Featured Videos Coming Soon

Our video library is continually expanding and will include presentations on:

  • Trauma and the Brain
  • Trauma Bonding
  • Coercive Control
  • Sexual Violence
  • Cyberstalking and Digital Abuse
  • Trauma and Memory
  • The Justice System
  • Healing and Recovery
  • Research and Professional Education

Please check back as we continue adding carefully selected educational resources.

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